We have been so blessed to meet some great friends here at our Coast Guard Assignment in Maine.
This week, I caught some great images of Joe and his friend “Londy” (London) having a natural learning experience with some free play in the puddles!
Me, Mothering & Making it all Work
We have been so blessed to meet some great friends here at our Coast Guard Assignment in Maine.
This week, I caught some great images of Joe and his friend “Londy” (London) having a natural learning experience with some free play in the puddles!
We started our week with fierce puddle splashing. Joe loves him some puddles!!!!
Tuesday afternoon, we had the inaugural ride of the power wheels Camaro. Abbey and Joe love cruising around the park together.
We love our mid-week bible study program at our friend’s church. Here is Joe with her daughter, London.
At one point, the two of them were feeding each other cake. It was adorable.
Next week, I promise, I’ll get a shot of the two of them hugging. It will melt your heart!
Abbey and Joe built a “roller coaster” together on Thursday with some building toys that we’ve collected from Wendy’s kids meals. I love how well they are interacting and playing with one another lately. We are not without a little rivalry and disagreement, but it’s mostly sibling love around here lately. So cute!
Unfortunately, on Friday afternoon, Jed, Joe, and I were in a one-car accident in the random sleet that hit our area. It was raining, and we had decided to drive to meet someone for a Craigslist trade. Rain turned to sleet really fast, and we hydroplaned on the ice. I was driving very slowly and carefully, but I couldn’t save us from crashing. The road went out from under us and there we were, crashing into a tree in the ditch. This is a picture of one of my bruises. It was awful and scary, but Joe and Jed and I are all OK, Thank GOD. My car however. . . is not.
I just praise God that everyone is safe, and thank God for the great family of friends we have here in our neighborhood that helped us out on Friday and kept my spirits up over the weekend. I was really SORE and sad about the crash.
Abbey had her second dance class this weekend. She loves it!
After dance class, we went to Abbey’s preschool program – Passport through America. It was a big party/festival type thing, in the gym at the Shipyard. There were booths with food, fun, and activities to represent all the regions of the US. Coincidentally (since we are moving to Alaska soon), Abbey’s class worked on the Alaska/Hawaii booth!
Abbey and Joe’s favorite part of the festival was definitely the petting zoo, though. They loved feeding the goats with us.
This post is part of the Mamatography 2013 Project with Diary of a First Child and Momma Jorje.
We are taking (at least) a photo a day to keep a record of our year. Join us at any point during the year and start sharing your own daily photos!

The snow won’t keep us from enjoying the outdoors, but it’s supposed to be SPRING, y’all! This is craziness!

We have been spending this past week having lots of playdates at the park with our neighborhood friends.

Enjoying laughs and toddler and childhood antics with all our dear friends before we pack up and move to Kodiak *sniff*

Joe has really been enjoying puddle splashing, even in the cooooooold weather.
“Mama, I splash puddle! I splash puddle pleeeeeease?”
How can I say no?

Joseph and Abbey have been having a brother-sister blast lately. It’s so fun to watch them together.
This post is part of the Mamatography 2013 Project with Diary of a First Child and Momma Jorje.
We are taking (at least) a photo a day to keep a record of our year. Join us at any point during the year and start sharing your own daily photos!
I have gotten SO behind in my Mamatography posts. So, here’s a catch up of what we’ve been up to for the past few weeks – the end of Fall, 2012.
At the tail end of the Fall season up here in Maine, we had a photo shoot with a friend and fellow Coast Guard wife, Kim Howell. You can follow her on Twitter @KimHowellPhotog
She captured some really fantastic photographs of the family, and we enjoyed the shoot a lot!
Abbey even got to clicking. . . capturing this iPhone photo of our feet as we posed for some pics sans kids.
Ah, the token nursing pic. Thank you, Kim, for snapping this one! So sweet!
After this beautiful (warm) fall day, it started getting windy and cold! On into the Winter season for us transplanted Mainers!
In Missouri, there lives an unassuming, loving and devoted mom of two. She works from home, cares for her kids, frequents Facebook, and enjoys spending time with family and friends. But there is absolutely nothing average about this woman to me. To me, Dionna Ford of Code Name: Mama is a huge inspiration and a dear friend – even though I have never met her in person, and only spoken to her once face to face.
She’s constantly reaching out to others to improve their understanding, education, and empowerment – and she’s been a dear friend and irreplaceable part of my life’s journey, asking nothing in return, but giving so much by way of encouragement, empowerment, and confidence.

Dionna is a co-founder of Natural Parents Network and Nursing Freedom, websites that encourage and educate about natural parenting and feeding children healthfully, with love and respect. When Dionna asked me to be a contributing writer to Natural Parent’s Network, I was so flattered.
I had no idea that my work was important or that my writing was. . . any good. But Dionna thought differently. She believed in my ability to bring a genuine and interesting voice to NPN. And she encouraged me to write on topics that were important to me.
Her confidence was a huge gift.
I had been thinking of myself as “just another mom with a blog” and wondering if I would ever be influential enough to help others with my thoughts.
I had been dreaming of going back to school and achieving my professional dreams. . . but I lacked the self-confidence and bravery to take that step. Dionna changed that. She empowered me to believe that I could succeed as a mother, a student, and even as a creative entrepreneur at the same time.
Every time that I log in to write for Natural Parents Network, I feel a sense of pride and a great sense of strength. Dionna’s confidence in me inspired a great confidence in myself, and allowed me to pursue education and explore and use my love for writing and creating for the family with bravery and passion.
I am nominating Dionna for the Yahoo! Shine Women Who Shine Program. Please click over and VOTE for Dionna on the Yahoo! Shine Women Who Shine webpage, where you can also nominate a lady who shines brightly in YOUR life for the $10,000 cash prize and the honor of being named Yahoo! Shine’s first Woman Who Shines winner.
You will need to sign in to YahooShine, but you can do so easily through a Facebook account or Twitter account. You can vote for Dionna once per day, so sign in and vote as often as you can!
Women Who Shine is Yahoo! Shine’s inaugural women’s recognition program. Nominate your peers, mentors, family and any other women in your community who inspire you and others with their extraordinary achievements. This program stands apart because the honorees are not the high-profile women or celebs you see in most other “Woman of the Year” or “Most Powerful Women” programs. It’s women nominating the local heroes in their communities and it is Shine’s readers, not an editorial staff, who decide who wins.
Natural Parents Network is a fantastic resource for caregivers to learn about different ways to understand, deepen your respect for, and find creative ideas for children – birth through adolescence. With a range of volunteer authors and Natural Parenting Mentors available, Dionna and Lauren have created a jewel of a parenting website – an authentic, loving, and accepting complement to more mainstream sites.
But Dionna’s sparkle goes deeper than the websites she has given to the world.
Her unassuming presence puts you at ease, and compassion is at the root of her relationships with others. She’s taken a great deal of time exploring her own experiences and improving her understanding of both non-violent communication and online journalism in order to lift up applicable information and resources to others in the best way.
Her bravery and eloquence shone when she posed for Time Magazine’s extended breast-feeding photo shoot, and then responded with a balance of passion and respect, expressing with gracefulness and tact her distaste for the publishers choice to sensationalize the shoot and fuel the “mommy-wars” with their inauthentic headline “Are You Mom Enough?”
She’s handled motherhood, creative work, writing, founding websites, advocacy, and even the national spotlight with grace, dedication, and courtesy. But no matter her success or the number of times she’s in the spotlight or published online or in print – remains and true and loyal friend.
This is why she shines, and why she should be celebrated!
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This week, I had the privilege of visiting with a dear friend and mama to seven beautiful children and meeting her newest baby, Judah. I only brought Joseph with me for the visit, knowing that the family had only recently moved into their new rental house and that they don’t have as much room as they used to to play outside. So, Abbey safely and happily at preschool, Joseph and I drove the 52 minutes to Sanford, ME with our bag full of hand-me-down boy clothes, and I got to see my friend and her lovely kids.
And I got to hold that sweet little newborn baby.
As I spoke to him, and held his little body in my hands, my friend snapped some pictures of us together, and I thought:
How sweet – that she thinks of me fondly enough to want to document Judah and me meeting each other for the first time . ..

Image: FreeDigitalPhotos.net
She gave me a beautiful gift just by letting me hold and love on her little newborn boy, but taking pictures of us interacting was an extra gift of love. I felt so special.
After Judah took in my face and voice, he nuzzled at my chest, smelling my breastmilk, and I let him know that though “yes, I smell like mama’s milk”
. . . that I was not his mama and I was going to hand him back.
As I thanked her for letting me hold her little son, I reminded her of a time that she had allowed an elderly lady to hold one of her other children, her only girl.
The family was at church, and the old woman had asked if she could hold my friend’s newborn girl.
The old lady held her for a portion of the service, and then handed her back to her mother. When she handed her back, the old woman as crying.
My friend asked her if she was OK, and the old lady told her
“I recently lost a grand baby – I never got to hold that grand baby that we lost, and so it was so wonderful to hold your darling little girl. Thank you for allowing me to hold her.”
Melly healed something in that lady that day. She gave her a gift, and it helped the old lady endure the pain of losing a loved one. It’s a great example of our opportunity to give great gifts of service through small actions and words. It reminds me of:
Melly could have said “no” when the woman asked to hold her daughter. She could have been fearful that the baby would get sick from a stranger touching her. There are numerous reasons why someone would have said “no” in her situation. But she gave a gift to that woman by allowing her to hold her baby – and though it seems like such a small thing. . . it was very powerful.
Often in this busy world, we forget how powerful the little things are.
I could have declined to come visit Melly and her family this week because the drive was longer for me than I normally find “feasible”.
I could have postponed the visit because I had something else to do.
I could have left early instead of sitting with her and visiting until Judah woke up from his nap.
But instead, I stayed. And though holding Judah seems like a small thing, it reminded me of how wondrous our God is – how beautiful every little child – every person they grow into, including you and me – and every thing that we do . . . is important. I’m so glad I drove to visit her. I’m so glad I sat with her and listened to her thoughts and how things are going. I’m so glad I stayed to enjoy holding baby Judah.
So let’s not forget the impact of the little things in life.
Brene’ Brown is thinking about the little things today as well. She is one of my favorite bloggers: a Ph.D., LMSW and research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work, she has “spent the past decade studying vulnerability, courage, worthiness, and shame” and writes beautiful and uplifting posts on her Ordinary Courage blog.
Today, she writes about her annual tradition of buying a box of “the most delicious petit fours that you’ll ever taste” and delivering them to a local fire station on 9-11 with a simple message attached
What a lovely sentiment. Such a small thing . . . but I’m sure to the firefighters who receive the gift, it’s a boost to their day, and makes them feel special and loved.
It’s an important gesture – just like Melly’s allowance of the lady at her church to hold her child – or her loving picture-snapping today while I held her newest squishy-cheeked little addition.
The small things should not be overlooked. Because like Brene’ Brown writes in her post about the little things,
“In this big, loud, anxious world, the small things matter so much.”
This week, we had the pleasure of visiting with a wonderful mama and her 6 (going on 7!) beautiful children. Abbey and Joseph played with them at this nearby park for hours. Hubs doesn’t understand how someone can have seven children, but they are all so creative, loving, and fun, and Abbey and Joe adore them. I just love this family, and have missed them so much while they have been living too far away to visit on a regular basis. We’re so very happy that they will be living less than an hour away now! M. is one of those friends that I know is true, loving, and authentic, and I can’t wait to have another get-together!
Meditating on the dramatic and emotional things that have been happening around here lately makes me think of a lesson my father taught me when I was young – “Be careful – don’t let anyone talk you into buying a lemon” . . . he’s speaking, of course, about the informal definition of a “lemon”:
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| Love this girl! She has her daddy’s eyes! |
| Yay! Snow! |
| “Look at the big snowball! Daddy make that for me!” |
| “Sup, mom?” Oh, those big blue EYES! Love! |
| Our black Lab Raven in the snow! |
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| Sweet Joseph having a playdate with our neighbor’s daughter. |
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| Rainbow cloth wipes I made for fellow NPN Volunteer, Jorje. |
Wordless Wednesday: Playgroup!
I love this instagr.am shot that I got of Abbey and her friends chillin by the kiddie pool this summer.
mmmmmm popcicles!
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I'm Amy. Military Wife. Mother to two Silly Bears. Family advocate, and natural parenting supporter. Used to be a dancer. Learning to be a runner. . . I knit, sew, take photos, and am bit of an overachiever. I strive for balance, have a hand at cooking and budgeting, and I live for my coffee ritual at 2:00 in the afternoon. [Read More …]
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